How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Her

Focusing on YOU is paramount to your success.

But you usually spend way to much time focusing on everyone else!

It’ll be impossible for you to ever be enough. You’ll never match up to what she has.

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That’s if you compare your success and progress to HER. 

Remember that it’s normal to compare and wish you had what someone else has, but it’s a waste of your time.

You only have a specific amount of time on this earth to live and be at your best.

There’ll only be so many opportunities you get to be with the people you love and care for, to work on yourself and feel like you can take on the world. Your time is ticking. 

Why waste it worried about someone else. 

Everyone has a starting point and everyone was once a beginner. All you usually see when you get caught in comparisons are the snapshots and highlights of someone’s life.

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We all have individual differences that make us the amazing humans we are.

No one person is the same and that's the beauty of it. 

  • Some of you are brilliant minds.

  • Some are great cooks.

  • Some have the biggest hearts; much more than what would ever meet the eye.

But it’s easy to forget about that. So this is your reminder.

You can be and do whatever you put your time, energy, and resources into.

The sky is the limit. Seriously.

But you’ll never be enough if your benchmarks are based on other people’s standards or attributes.

Get so caught up with you, that it becomes impossible to see what THEY are doing.

Don’t lose your spark,

Kimbo

Josh Jensen

Josh is an ACSM certified personal trainer, author, and ex-collegiate football player in the Central Florida area. His education includes a Bachelors of Science at The University of Central Florida, physical therapy undergrad courses and pre-clinical experience. Josh is ranked as one of the top 10 trainers in the Central Florida Gold’s Gym Franchise, specializing in fat loss. He is currently training out of the Dr. Phillips location. His philosophy is that training should be fun, stress-free and personalized to your life.

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